By Tony Mudd
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March 24, 2025
It’s a strange, heartbreaking feeling when the person you love most becomes the one who questions your dream. Not out of jealousy. Not out of bitterness. But out of fear.
You’re working toward purpose, chasing a vision that keeps you up at night and wakes you up in the morning. But then, someone you deeply love — your partner, a parent, maybe even a best friend — plants a quiet seed of doubt:
“What if it doesn’t work?”
“What if people don’t show up?”
“What if you’re disappointed?”
And just like that, a dream that once felt full of fire starts to feel heavy. It took me time to realize this truth: the fears of others are often disguised as love.
They don’t want to hurt you. They don’t want you to fail. They don’t want to watch you give your all and get nothing in return. So they use what they know — logic, caution, risk analysis. And they speak from their own stories, their own pain, their own past.